My son is over the age of 21 and I know that on his 21st birthday he actually went out and purchased alcohol with his friends. He was completely honest with me and said, “Mom, I’ve tried beer and Vodka and it did nothing for me”. Said he “hated the taste and how it made him feel sluggish and sleepy afterwards”. I think if we have an “open dialogue” with our children about alcohol, then it will prevent them from drinking alcohol without our knowledge. I’ve told my son that he can talk to me about ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING. It’s crucial that we allow our sons and daughters to feel comfortable about opening up to us as parents. I hate to see the number of drunk drivers (DUI’s) in the Unites States (college students), who really didn’t have to be in a “drink and drive” situation. But, most of the time they are afraid to ask their parents for a ride, for fear of retribution. As a mom, I think we should make our kids feel comfortable so they can open up to us and tell us everything and anything. This is the only way we can help our kids lead successful lives.
Don’t drink and drive, call a friend, Uber, Lyft or just simply walk home.