Finding A Roommate

While our children are in college it is very challenging finding the right roommate until graduation.   My son, Arthur has one more year until he can apply for graduation and we are feverishly trying to find him a new roommate.  The cost of living has increasingly gone up over the past few years, but we may have found the perfect place for about $1,000 per month.  He’s had several roommates in the past, but they have moved out of the country or have dropped out of college and we know it will not be cheap.  We want to purchase a condo for Arthur upon graduation, so that he can work full-time in his chosen career and then start saving for his own home purchase.

We’ve tried college apartment boards and but when using Craigslist we know that we must be very careful.  Craigslist has yielded excellent past roommates for Arthur and we are hoping for the same results this time around.  Whatever happened to the days when renting a room used to cost around $300 per month?  Those days go way back to the year 1970. We are in 2017 and the average cost for a one-bedroom apartment in a nice neighborhood runs about $1,500 per month (or more).

If you are having a tough time finding a roommate for your college kids, send me an email and I will send you resources in your area.

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Living Forever

As a mom, I wish I could live forever to be here and take care or my children.  However, we know that we cannot live forever but through purchasing life insurance I truly feel that I can leave something behind for my family when I am gone.  I certainly want them to be able to continue living their lives without stress and headaches, so I’ve purchased life insurance that will sustain them when I am gone.  So many people often don’t think about purchasing life insurance until it’s too late.  Don’t wait…start today if you haven’t already…

Fidelity Life established in 1896 and offers coverage for adults and children.  They don’t require medical or health exams for many of their policies and they offer affordable monthly, quarterly or annual billing rates.  Go to

Check out their rates and be sure to purchase some life insurance so that your family will be taken care of should anything happen to you.    This is my way of living on forever through my children.

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The Flu

I’ve been sick in bed with the flu for the past four days.  Not sure how I got sick, but it has been no fun.  I wanted to ride my bike and get about 5 miles of exercise yesterday, but my body was so weak from this flu bug that I was simply unable to do anything.  Maybe by tomorrow I can get a nice bike ride.  Mucinex is my new best friend.  I hope that all of you are feeling well.  Don’t let the change in weather get the best of you, stay hydrated and take your vitamins.

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Black Friday

I know most of you have enjoyed the Thanksgiving holiday with family and close friends.  My son stayed at his college dormitory because he had exams next week and said he wanted to study for them.  So, instead of turkey he baked a chicken.  I think we all need to start thinking about healthy eating during and after the holidays.  Especially if you have relatives and friends who love to binge eat during the holidays…any excuse to gain 10 pounds.  Well if we eat too much, we can always get back in the gym five days each week and burn off those extra calories.

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Miss Peregrine’s

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You’ve gotta see this film….Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children.  I am a huge move buff and it is my opinion that you are never too old to enjoy a great children’s film.  As a mom of a college student, who no longer enjoys these types of films (because he’s over 18 and in college) I enjoy these films more than the kids.

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Find your nearest movie theater, take the kids or your best friend…maybe drag your husband along (if you can) and enjoy this film.  The cinematography is beautiful…it’s a fun movie.  Enjoy!

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Healthy Eats…

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Trying my best to eat a healthy meal today.  One of my favorite places to eat is Urth Caffe in Pasadena, CA.  They also have a great location in Beverly Hills and the food is delicious.  The salads are fresh, the iced organic green tea is simply the best green tea I’ve ever tasted.

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I couldn’t resist the chocolate chip cookie and lemonade…but you’ve gotta try their organic green tea!!!!


This place is easy on the wallet and easy on the calories.

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Alcohol and College Students


My son is over the age of 21 and I know that on his 21st birthday he actually went out and purchased alcohol with his friends.  He was completely honest with me and said, “Mom, I’ve tried beer and Vodka and it did nothing for me”.  Said he “hated the taste and how it made him feel sluggish and sleepy afterwards”.  I think if we have an “open dialogue” with our children about alcohol, then it will prevent them from drinking alcohol without our knowledge.  I’ve told my son that he can talk to me about ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING.  It’s crucial that we allow our sons and daughters to feel comfortable about opening up to us as parents.  I hate to see the number of drunk drivers (DUI’s) in the Unites States (college students), who really didn’t have to be in a “drink and drive” situation.  But, most of the time they are afraid to ask their parents for a ride, for fear of retribution.  As a mom, I think we should make our kids feel comfortable so they can open up to us and tell us everything and anything.  This is the only way we can help our kids lead successful lives.

Don’t drink and drive, call a friend, Uber, Lyft or just simply walk home.

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Sex and College

My son is a junior in college and talking to him about sex was something I did while he was in high school.  Although, I was hoping that when he started college, he would have enough knowledge about sex so that he would make the right decisions.  I think there should not be sex without marriage, but that’s just my opinion.  However, as parents we know that our children (teens) have hormones that sometimes control their actions.  Responsible sex is what we teach our kids, if they plan on having sex before marriage.  But, what exactly is “responsible sex”?

Is responsible sex:

  1. Having sex with a condom
  2. Making sure the female is on a birth control pill
  3. Pulling out prior to ejaculation
  4. Just kissing and going home before things get hot and heavy

Please write me and let me know how you feel about your teens having sex prior to marriage.  Do you advocate abstinence?  I can’t wait to hear your stories…

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After Summer Camp is Over


When summer camp comes to a close, then it’s time to find additional activities for the kids.  Family time is important, because we all work and when children don’t get that quality time with their parents, they really do suffer from it.  Try to spend as much time as you can with your little ones and treasure each moment.  My best friend was not raised by her biological parents and although she was adopted, she always loved the quality time her adopted parents spent with her.  As a mother, you need to show your children that you love them by making time for them…although you may be tired after work, after cooking dinner and everything else that we mothers do – please try to take even thirty minutes to REALLY talk to your children and ASK THEM how they are doing.

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Beautiful Day Today

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The sun was shining and the birds were chirping…well the waves were beautiful today at the beach.  Hope you enjoy these pictures and enjoy the day with your family.  The year is quickly passing us by and pretty soon college semesters and quarters will begin, so enjoy your summer before it’s all over.

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HelicopterMamma Tote

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It’s Summer Time – Time to order your HelicopterMamma tote.  Beach time, family time, FUN TIME!!!  We will be reorganizing the product order page and will update you as soon as possible.  What are your special plans for 4th of July?  We need our tote bags to carry our food and fun items to and from the 4th of July festivities.  Let me know what your 4th of July plans are with your family.

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Interesting Article

How to Stop Being Helicopter Parents –

One Day They Will Fly the Coop

What Happens When Overprotected Kids Leave Home?

Even the most coddled child has to untie the apron strings eventually. (One historical exception: When Douglas MacArthur entered West Point as a cadet, his helicopter mom moved into an apartment near the grounds, reportedly so that she could watch him study through a telescope.) Holly Schiffrin, an associate professor of psychology at the University of Mary Washington, in Fredericksburg, Virginia, thinks that some parents of college students have not gotten the memo. “They call me to discuss grades, or they want my help setting schedules,” she says. “Some even monitor their kids’ diet and exercise habits.” Yet all this loving care does not always result in happier offspring, as Schiffrin discovered when she surveyed 297 students and found that the ones with controlling parents were more anxious and depressed. A separate study of 300 freshmen from Keene State College, in Keene, New Hampshire, found that heli-parented students were more likely to feel angry, worried, self-conscious, and vulnerable.

Although it might sound great to have someone swoop in to take care of everything, human beings have an innate need to do things for themselves. “Competence and autonomy have been consistently associated with well-being,” says Schiffrin. “Helicopter parents undermine these ideas. They’re sending young adults the message ‘You’d better let me do it. You’re not capable of solving your own conflicts or managing your own budget.’ ” This could explain why, in a survey from the website, one in five students thought that it would be OK to have their parents contact a prospective employer.  Constant involvement in their personal (and professional) lives might have something to do with nonstop communication. Call it a technological umbilical cord: According to the survey, 41 percent of student’s text, e-mail, or call their parents daily. “When I was in college, there was one pay phone for the entire floor. I talked to my parents once a week,” says Schiffrin. “If I had a dispute with my roommate, I had to handle it. Now kids can e-mail their papers to their parents.”

And why not, if Mom and Dad are helping to pay for the class? College is expensive, says Schiffrin, and parents may want to make sure that they get a return on their investment. “There’s this academic terror that parents have for their kids,” says child psychologist Lawrence Cohen, Ph.D., “and the recession adds to it.” Micromanagement is a classic way of coping with larger anxieties, he says: “When things feel out of control, we try to exert control in other ways.” But doing everything under the sun to ensure that your child gets an A in astronomy isn’t going to make you or him feel more secure. And that you can take to the bank.

Article from the website

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New Ladies Tees

We have some new ladies t-shirt designs that will be listed for sale in our store in a few days.  Take a look at some of the exciting colors.  We gave you moms exactly what you asked for – you wanted pretty, bright and feminine colors and that’s what we did.  Take a look for yourself and keep in mind all of our products are made with 100% Organic Cotton!

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Girl Scouts

I’ve not been getting out much but yesterday I made a quick run to the market and I saw my favorite cookies – there they were sitting on tables outside of the market in cute little, colorful boxes being sold by Girl Scouts.  My favorite are the shortbread ones – yummy goodness in every bite.  I hope that wherever you live, whatever town – that you are supporting our local Girl Scouts by buying as many boxes of cookies as possible.  Even if you don’t eat them, give them away to a friend, co-worker or neighbor.

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Girl Scout Mission – Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place.

100+ Years – Founder Juliette Gordon Low organized the first Girl Scout Troop on March 12, 1912, in Savannah, Georgia.

An American Institution – Girl Scouts of the USA was chartered by the U.S. Congress on March 16, 1950.

Still Growing Strong – Today, there are 3.2 million Girl Scouts—2.3 million girl members and 890,000 adult members working primarily as volunteers.

Empowering Girls – In Girl Scouts, girls discover the fun, friendship, and power of girls together. Through a myriad of enriching experiences, such as extraordinary field trips, sports skill-building clinics, community service projects, cultural exchanges, and environmental stewardships, girls grow courageous and strong. Girl Scouting helps girls develop their full individual potential; relate to others with increasing understanding, skill, and respect; develop values to guide their actions and provide the foundation for sound decision-making; and contribute to the improvement of society through their abilities, leadership skills, and cooperation with others.

At Home and Abroad – Girls at home and abroad participate in troops and groups in more than 92 countries through USA Girl Scouts Overseas, and over 100 local Girl Scout councils offer girls the opportunity for membership across the United States.

An International Family – Through its membership in the World Association of Girl Guides and Girl Scouts (WAGGGS), Girl Scouts of the USA is part of a worldwide family of 10 million girls and adults in 145 countries.

A Pivotal Part of Women’s History – More than 59 million American women enjoyed Girl Scouting during their childhood—and that number continues to grow as Girl Scouts of the USA continues to inspire, challenge, and empower girls everywhere.



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Surfing, Are You Serious?!!

surfing lessonsDoesn’t this look like fun?  It’s better for the kids to take surfing lessons, rather than go out into the ocean to actually learn how to surf.  Stay warm as you watch these kids having fun surfing.  Mother knows it’s better to practice first before doing the real thing.  Those waves can be a little crazy.

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